Excerpt from Season 1 | Episode 6
Alisa Purifico: What would you say in your opinion are the biggest mistakes that people do when they’re trying to get back out there?
I think a lot of people are self-aware enough that if they’re single and they’ve been trying it, like I’m not perfect at this, I’m doing something wrong. What would you say in your opinion are the biggest mistakes that people do when they’re trying to get back out there?
Dr Christie Kederian: One of the biggest mistakes.
That people make is that they’re not really clear about what they’re looking for and who they want this second is that they overload the system. So they are going on like two or three dates a night. They’re just kind of treating it like it’s like a business ok next, next, onto the next. And they’re not thinking about the process part, which is your energy.
What you bring to the date really makes a huge impact. So you really had to think of it more as like, okay. When do I feel most myself and my best. Okay. Maybe it’s a Saturday. So I’m only going to date that day. I’m only going to go on one date this weekend and it’s going to be that day. That’s a tip I give all of my clients.