In order to find to someone that’s going to finish your sentence. You’ve got to find someone that isn’t too scared to actually start a sentence with you. This is what we forget. Ladies, we always forget how beautifully complex we are.
What are you looking for? Ann said something really powerful and something that I hear, a lot of people say, “I’m looking for someone that will finish my sentence. That’s a real connection to me any way”.
This idea, this phrase and this notion of finishing someone’s sentence… listen, I get it. I love that too. I can finish my husband’s sentences. I know he can finish mine. But really when we break it down, why that’s such a beautiful thing… it really means that you care enough and can look so deeply enough into someone else that you can literally anticipate what that person is thinking.
And that’s such a gentle thing. It’s such a beautiful thing, such a delicate thing. It’s such an intimate thing. And that moment is what people seek and/or are actually seeking. When we look for something that deep, we really have to adjust our expectation though, of when we’re going to feel it. And when we’re going to know that that’s even possible, because, and again, I’ll say this a lot, whether you think it or not, you are not going to know right away, if the person you’re talking to, if you’ve never met them before… is going to understand you and your entirety.
You’re just never going to know. There’s no way. Now you may hit it off easier with someone than another, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that’s the right move and the other person’s not.
And I say this because, she says I’m looking for some of them will finish my sentence. That’s beautiful and you deserve that and you need that. But in order to get to somebody, that’s going to finish your sentence. You’ve got to find someone that isn’t scared enough to start a sentence with you.
This is what we forget. Ladies. We always forget how beautifully complex we are.